we met in college and began dating in 1999. we were married January 6th of 2001.
From here, who knows where the journey will go, but, for now we know our family is growing to: 1 couple + THREE kids + 2 dogs = us
such neat friends. we are so lucky to have the bowies in our life. they are always loving on us! and it is so neat to have found such great friends up here. we are so blessed. so incredibly blessed regularly by this family....
yesterday they brought over a plate of cookies with a verse to remind us on valentines day about love...
we feel so loved! thanks nate and annie. you guys are the best!!!
...in the fall Aunt Vicki and Uncle Chris Wright came and visited us and the Klossner's.... well, when they did they brought gifts for each of the girls, so sweet! well, part of the gift was a few of the littlest pet shops... and my mom bought the girls a nintendo DS game that was littlest pet shops.... and so it began.... and boy, was it adorable! the girls both love littlest pet shops. something caelan has liked for awhile now and something riley is beginning to gain interest in! we are grateful since we have endured the "cars" craze with riley for 4.5 years now and shes liked nothing but cars, so we are thrilled she is moving on to other things, although she still loves loves loves her cars.... :)
for valentines day i bought each of the girls a new set of littlest pet shops. i gave it to them early since their party for schools made it seem like valentines day already!
they were so tickled. and nothing makes me more happy then seeing them get happy over a little thing such as littlest pet shops. :)
my father-in-law and mother-in-law gave the girls a doll house for christmas and the girls use the littlest pet shops for the doll house and it has become quite the craze around here for friends and my girls alike to play with! such a neat thing to have!
and ya-ya bought one of the littlest pet shop houses for christmas that fits right inside the big doll house!!! so cool!
we had a super bowl party!!! it was such a blast having friends over and sharing in great food and great fun!
everyone pitched in and brought their favorite munchie and we ate all day long and loved every bit of it! :)
we had tasty meatballs, all sorts of ever-so-yummy dips, drinks, 8 layer dip, fruit dip with fruit, and a veggie tray with all sorts of dips for dipping.
caelan is in a program at school in her classroom that is called, "Fantastic Readers." every week she completes a chapter book and does a project. this last week her project was writing a song based on her chapter book and she completed one of the series in the "magic tree house"
she choose to write about the dinosaurs in the book and sing a song in her classroom in front of all of the students...
we took a video of her singing her song. that she wrote. here is a preview. there are a few pauses in the video but be patient, it will all upload correctly when you keep watching it.... its 2 minutes long.
here are the words to the song typed up:
Caelan Brewer
The Magic Treehouse: A Song
Chorus: Annie and Jack Annie and Jack They went in a magic treehouse It spun them around They landed on the ground They saw dinosaurs
Verse 1: Hey Mister Pteranadon Where have my parents gone? I’m looking around But I can’t see Where, oh where can they be?
How high can you fly? I want to touch the sky.
Verse 2: Hey Mister Triceratops Get me back, or I might POP! Careful with Your three horns Or you will make me sore!
I hope you eat plants. If not, can you dance?
Verse 3: Hey Duck-Billed Dinosaur Can you help us some more? I wanna go home As quick as can be I like you. Do you like me?
i continue to be touched... i continue to have my heart embraced.... i continue to be in awe of God's hand in the lives of others... and in our life. my friend becky and her husband nick continue to amaze me. their story is inspiring. and i continue to pray. praying lots, for my heart is deeply touched, and not just the surface, but every inch of our beings are being impacted.
watch this video. i was so moved. shaken none the less. heart pounding. -megs
I don't want to sound like I'm on a soap box, but I want to share a little about my heart for adoption. Soooo many people have been touched by Judah's story. I'm certain that some of those moved by it, want to move into action, but won't, possibly because or fear and other valid reasons. Fear of not having enough money to fund it, fear of blending family, fear of not having 'enough' room in the house, fear of public opinion, fear of rejection of the child, fear of not being able to handle another child, etc. In my mind these are all valid concerns. But in our experience (and that of many others) those concerns though real, were wiped away by our sweet little boy. It's only been a day and a half of 3 kids and it's tough already. I know there will be many more challenges ahead. We're really doing it and we love it! (Okay we may not love it at 3 am, but overall we LOVE it!) When we first started out this journey we were convicted by the charge in James 1:27: "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world." We personally felt convicted to move forward in adoption.
Can I ask a tough question? What are you doing with this charge in James? Am I saying youshould adopt? No, but I am saying God's wordtells us to look after orphans and widows. If God is impressing on your heart adoption, can I encourage you to look into what that means for your family? If you don't feel led to adopt, you can financially support another adoptive family. Trust me, there is not shortage of need and I'd be happy to point you in the right direction. Have you prayed about how God can use you to make a difference in the life of an orphan? Okay okay, enough. Basta. No mas. I'll end by encouraging you to pray about what God would do in your heart towards orphans and tell you that while everyone says, "you've blessed Judah's life so much!", I can safely say, "Actually, we're the ones who are blessed!".
Enjoy this video below and please, from the heart of a mother, consider what God might do in and through you for the orphan.
caelan had a school writing assignment which included filling out this form and doing a project to go along with it....
she told me she wanted me to look at it when she was all done.
i read it and tears filled the pockets of my eyes.
a lesson from a 6 and a half year old is what it ended up being. this wasn't merely an assignment for her to turn in but a lesson she would go on to teach others about....
when it all boils down to it the child's mind and heart sees whats really there. none of the superficial stuff that we all tend to peer our eyes on when we are older....
when i saw the assignment, i began racing through my thoughts wondering what her answers would be for the assignment.... i began to think of things like, a big house, a big yard, we have a of nice things.... etc. but what i saw was her heart. i saw what mattered most.... having a bed to sleep in, a table to eat at, and a family TO LOVE.... the fact that she wrote a family TO love.... it blew me away....
i began to think of the people in Haiti.... what those people would give to have a table to eat at, a a bed to sleep in..... shoot, a family TO love, since a lot of them are missing their family or are without one.... it hit me hard. we are so fortunate. we aren't suffering in tragedy.... our country has its problems but we are not facing problems that other countries face today...
life is not about 'stuff'... it doesn't matter the car you drive, the city in which you live or how many square feet your home is.... it doesn't matter the clothes you wear or the restaurants you eat out at....
what matters is that you have a family to love. a roof over your head. food on the table. that's what makes a home special.
email confirmation that our family is a "great fit" for the AWAA Ethiopia Program
March 5, 2014
submitted our 13 step application process, after the pre-application was approved, it was on to the next steps...
March 6, 2014
paid our $350 application fees.
March 10, 2014
AWAA requested more info from us... had to submit extended info for our application...
March 12, 2014
got our final acceptance email into AWAA's Ethiopia Program
April 13 2014
switched agencies to International Family Services
April 19 2014
notary- forms for IFS
application fees ($400) mailed with notorized paperwork
May 13, 2014
mailed off Grant 68:5
May 16, 2014
participated in the Anthem Church Consignment sale to raise money
May 22, 2014
walked paperwork in to Idaho Youth Ranch (homestudy agency)
homestudy paperwork submitted (app fee $100)
June 4, 2014
Erics fingerprint and background check appt ($65)
June 6, 2014
Megans fingerprint and background check appt ($65)
June 20-21, 2014
yard sale. raised close to $2,000
paid home study $1,400
paid $700 in agency fees
July 17, 2014
Yisak's medical records were sent to us and we had them reviewed by Lakeside Peds.
August 12, 2014
got final certification from background checks... clearance sent to agency
August 24, 2014
online adoption training classes for home study
10 hours of training
certification- passed
September 17, 2014
home study 3pm-7pm
October 2014
Support check mailed from the Sugar Family
October 12, 2014
10am finucane park
fundraiser... Hope4 5k
October 20, 2014
home study report sent to agency. we have official copies, signed off in our hands.
agency fees all officially paid. $4,500
November 1, 2014
documents sent to us to start our dossier
November 12, 2014
signed off on all of Yisaks medical issues, signed agency agreement and intent to officially adopt Yisak
motorized forms scanned and sent the following day. via email.
November 20, 2014
mailed official motorized form for agency agreement and intent to officially adopt Yisak
December 14, 2014
passports done. waiting for them to be mailed now.
December 30, 2014
passports are here!
January 5, 2015
picked up the girls' medical clearance forms that were notarized at their pediatricians office (dossier)
picked up our state clearance forms from our home study agency (dossier)
USCIS forms all filled out. just gathering the rest of the money to send it all in. (dossier)
$720 to USCIS
$170 total for both of our fingerprints (homeland security)
January 10, 2015
USCIS paperwork sent with FedEx to Texas.
I-600A for USCIS
$720 application
$170 for fingerprinting
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$890 sent to Homeland Security
January 15, 2015
got email confirmation of USCIS stuff.... they issued our SIM number and said our paperwork would be mailed within 7-10 days to go get our fingerprinting done!
January 22ish? got letter confirming above.... and said within 3-5 days we will get our appt time and dates mailed
January 26, 2015
USCIS mailed appt and forms for appt.... FORM I-797C
notice of action. application for advanced processing of Orphan
January 26, 2015
interview on Skype with Katelyn's Fund Adoption Grant
7:30pm.
January 29, 2015
mailed off california state certified requests for birth/marriage certs. for dossier
Feburary 1, 2015
mailed off Child Waits StageII paperwork
February 3, 2015
email congrats on receiving Kaitlyns Fund grant
February 5, 2015
USCIS fingerprinting in spokane
February 23, 2015
notice of Help Us Adopt grant- DID NOT get grant
March 3, 2015
USCIS clearance I-171H
March 5, 2015
dossier sent to agency for review (emailed copies).... given corrections.... need to update and re-submit
March 10, 2015
found out grant news from Show Hope!
$$$$ awarded. must travel within 4 months or its void
March 31, 2015
police station- fingerprinting cards to mail to West Virginia for FBI clearance
April 7, 2015
$$$$ given from our church. Compel Community
blew us away.
April 13, 2015
at the bank to notarize all the docs for dossier.... 25 signatures for notary....
April 14, 2015
back to Police Station for fingerprinting cards..... FBI in West Virginia called and said it would be 4 months to process.... so sending to another dept in Idaho for clearance....
April 14, 2015
Fund the Nations Shirts came for our fundraiser.... Fly Me Home
April 16, 2015
california docs came- state certification done! for dossier
April 17, 2015
sent references to be state certified in california
April 20, 2015
phone call from Redeemer Adoption Grant.... interview being scheduled for May 2015!
April 29, 2015
our background checks from the state of idaho came
May 2, 2015
california mailed back all of our docs that needed state certified because they weren'tattachedwith staples.
May 9, 2015
interview with redeemer adoption fund in spokane valley
May 11, 2015
heard back from Redemeer Adoption Fund and we got a grant!!!!
May 14, 2015
dossier complete and mailed to Missouri to Randi our coordinator for the Ethiopia program
May 25, 2015
dossier CLEARED and APPROVED by Randi!!!!
May 27, 2015
immunizations done at panhandle health district. typhoid. hep A.
now we wait.... wait for complete funding so our dossier can move forward to washington DC and then on to Ethiopia! praying for funding....
waiting on The JSC grant. and 3 others.....
June 17, 2015
donation
June 19, 2015
fully funded. grant received. (cannot say which grant or amount)
August 18, 2015 PAIR docs arrived!
August 19, 2015 pair docs sent back out, next day air!